Monday, July 28, 2008

A GOOD DEED, INDEED!


A GOOD DEED INDEED AND A GOOD CHANGE FOR SURE.

Shoppers Drug Mart has stood out for the first time, not just for the high quality of products and customer service, or the high quality of “prices”, but for the high quality of humanism. It’s a quality which, generally speaking, is becoming rare in humans these days.
One Shoppers Drug Mart pharmacist, Jag Maghera, has simply displayed this unique trait by one of his deeds. He recently hired a young man with Down syndrome.

This indeed is an act to be applauded. In this exceptional decision of hiring a person with Down syndrome as an employee, Mr. Maghera was not alone; his management, including his store manager, Trevor Evilly, and assistant manager, Harry Phu, stood by him. Along with the management, the whole staff welcomed this special employee with wide open arms.

This very special young person is, Adam Wright, who is 20 years old and has recently graduated from his special High school. He was hired to work at the store as a merchandiser.
Jag Maghera has his point of view of hiring Wright, “It isn’t some kind of a lab test. I thought of Adam as a perfectly normal kid. He is strong and responsive and above all neat and takes care of himself…He has brought his own unique personality to the store and everyone just loves him. And he loves everyone in return.”
“I just love it, love it here” says Adam.
“He repeats some words twice when he is emphasizing anything”, says Brittany, one of the supervisors at the store, “You should listen to him when he calls Harry, ‘hairy Harry’, because of Harry’s longer kept hair.”
People with Down syndrome are really sweet and sensitive by nature. They are not comfortable with seeing anyone in pain. “You should’ve seen Adam when there was an accident right in front of our store, he was so worried about the injured that he stood outside to talk to the paramedics just to make sure no one was hurt”, said Jag Maghera.
A person waiting in line is Adam’s priority even if he is working on the floor. He pages some one immediately. He is eager to learn anything new. The happiness and the glow that comes to his face when he does something on his own are angelic.

“Me did it”, Adam would say and hug you. If an employee is sick at work he would come and try to help him or her with what ever he could. “He would offer a hug and a massage at the same time”, says Brittany, “he truly is an angel.”

For those who don’t know what DS is, in a nut shell, according to the Kid’s Health Organization, it’s a medical condition in which an extra genetic material (chromosome) causes delay in a way a child develops and often leads to mental retardation. It can be detected by doctors even before or after the birth of such a child. These kids have similar
facial features like an upwards slant to the eyes, small ears and an enlarged tongue. Down syndrome is named after the British doctor John Langdon Down who first described this condition in 1887. However, in 1959, an extra chromosome was identified as the cause. It affects 1 in 800 babies (www.kidshealth.org/parent/medical/genetic/down_syndrome.html).
This positive attitude of the store staff is appreciated by the customers too. According to the CSI survey, an independent system of evaluation conducted for services provided by Shoppers Drug mart, most of the customers for the store # 735 ( Maghera Pharmacy), are actually appreciating Magera’s decision to hire Wright. Initially, 60-75% of the customers participating in the survey had good remarks for the store. Bravo!
“It’s good to see big companies like Shoppers hiring kids like Adam. I really admire you guys when I see someone patiently training him”, said Mrs. Jean Wilson, a regular customer.
This kind of positive response from the community is important in order to bring adults and youth with DS out of their enclave to be a better and, most importantly, a regular part of our society.
For this Shoppers Drug mart store just one person has brought such a spirit of caring and compassion to all the employees as a whole, which surpasses any customer service in the store. The store employees, rather than feel pity or bad about him, they have actually learned a lot from him. Many others would consider hiring Wright a legal requirement or an act of pity, but for Maghera and the staff it has really become a blessing and a learning experience. They have truly grown from this lesson of being around someone with DS, which in no way is his weak point.
The customers as a community have responded well too. They have come to enjoy the assistance they get from Adam Wright.
Mr. Maghera could have hired someone who would classify as ‘normal’ to others and would be seen as ‘more useful’, the new employee has really taught the employees and customers something that may be any other employee couldn’t have done.
We are so possessed with every thing or rather anything that brings ‘change’. American presidential candidate Barak Obama has his whole campaign based on this slogan of ‘change’. For Maghera’s store, the change that looked a bit difficult to be accepted brought a new life to the store which is truly a fresh breeze of changed atmosphere for the store and the community. And for Adam Wright not something for ' special needs kids' but a dignified job like all other kids his age has , definitely a good change.

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Monday, July 21, 2008

soaring gas prices

COMPUTER PRACTICES
Professor Paul Hambleton
July 17, 2008
By,
Samina Tauhid
GAS PRICES AND US.

It really is amazing how our daily lives are affected by one little hike in the price of gasoline. Common people like me are not educated enough to understand what and who is controlling the prices of gas and other commodities. We are more concerned with using our time to find a way to manage our daily budget instead of trying to investigate the cause. If you fall under the low income category, you really are a loser. And I mean it. You are a real loser. You lose on your daily groceries, you lose on your kids’ entertainment, because of so much stress you lose on your own health, ‘the most important gift’ from God, which we all take for granted.

A layman like me is not aware of the game played by real market players like Shell, Caltex, ESSO or any private distributors for that matter who are making their own profits by an artificial price hike. Just a peek in the quarterly reports of these giant oil companies shows what a huge profit these companies are making. Their economic outlook shows no losses.
Saudi Arabia and other OPEC nations have increased their oil production just recently and still there’s no change, or rather, no cut down in gas prices what so ever. Why? And it’s a big WHY with a big question mark? I don’t know the answer to this question, as I’m not an economist, but I know one thing for sure: the soaring gas prices and that of the other commodities have made everyone’s lives miserable to some extent.

Like many others, the increase in gas prices directly affects me as well. I have consulted some of my colleagues, friends, and neighbors on the matter. They all shared the same opinion: they are in misery because of the gas prices. “I drive 55 km to work which is 110 km daily. My company is not paying for my gas,” says Omar, a friend. At the end of the month, he ends up paying more on his credit card bills. This is a relatable story to most people, like me, who drive back and forth from work, school, and home. We are under a tremendous stress. Our health is at stake.
Some of our friends have cancelled their vacations and they are not alone I stand with them. “We simply can’t afford to go anywhere,” says my husband Khateeb. Oh no! I cringed inside with anger. I had been planning on a vacation to visit my brother’s family in Florida for so long. “I deserve this vacation. I’ve been working full time and studying full time. Don’t you think I need a break?” I snapped back.
“Yes you do, take a break and stay home. No more vacations on the credit card. Otherwise, you’ll end up working harder to pay off the bills,” says my husband.
“I can check cheap tickets dot com,” my son popped in, but bogged down quickly as he saw his dad’s eyes staring at him.
Fun apart, if we look at the third world countries, we are a bunch of lucky ones. I talked to my father in Pakistan and I was shocked to hear the prices of gas and that of basic goods like rice and flour. The gas price ranges from Rs 85-95 per liter. That’s why more people are turning towards changing their car system to CNG, a natural gas kit. Poor people can no longer even afford to buy basic necessities such as food; they are relying on charities. The middle class society is working harder to get their means of income and expenses sorted out. The society on the whole is declining towards poverty.
We are lucky to be here in Canada. At least we are feeding ourselves and our families here and back home. Thank God for that. I’m sure none of us have slept on an empty stomach or have had to walk 20-30 km to work as most people are doing in the third world countries.
We must think rationally and use the three R’s, reduce, reuse and recycle as much as possible. If we all use car pool and walk to work or else where, it might help save some money at the end.

Saturday, July 19, 2008

clear blue sky of Beijeng


This photo is sent to me by a very good friend of mine who lives in Beijing and runs a Cambridge( English) school. His name is Hadyn Adam.He is a true educationalist. Himself a Cambrige University grad, has travelled a lot but loves China more than any other country. He has made China his second home.This photo he took is in the context of an environmental issue raised by CNN and BBC.

ANGEL IN DISGUISE....IN MY NEIGHBOURHOOD

ANGEL IN DISGUISE ….IN MY NEIGHBORHOOD

Who says there are no angels in this world? I believe in God and angels: I also believe there are angels around us who are in disguise. They look like you and me, ordinary people. God sent them to our world for our help. They could be in the shape of a doctor, a bus driver, a teacher, or just someone next door. You never know who they may be or what form they may appear as.
My next door neighbor, Gina, believes in angels too. She is an accountant, a single mother and has raised two boys. Her beliefs became stronger after an incident, or rather, an accident.
Her teenage son had invited some of his friends to his house a few weeks back. Gina and her younger son left the house to give the kids some privacy. Her eldest son, James 17, and three of his friends were having a good time, until one of them suggested to go to his house. James offered his services in driving his friend to his house near Square One. To remind you, this is happening in my neighborhood, which is Derry and Mavis, quite a distance from Square One. Additionally, James does not hold a driver’s license; he only had a G1 at the time. The teenagers got excited and no one tried to put sense into James’s head.
Unfortunately, Gina had left her car home not thinking about such an incident occurring for obvious reason of James’s lack of proper license.
James put all his friends in the car and left home. While they were still in the neighborhood, James thought of just driving inside the Crescent: luck or God’s grace was playing its part here.
He drove around slowly at first, and then picked up the speed in the excitement. The second time they came to the curve of the crescent, another car, speedily driving on the wrong side of the road, was about to come crashing into James’s car. James had to turn all the way to his right in order to avoid a head on collision. He managed to do that, but hit the curb sliding and crushing three trees on his way. The car was so badly damaged between the trees that they were unable to push it down to the road.
Here comes the angel; a man, another neighbor, Ted Phu, who had been sitting outside had witnessed the whole accident and he came to the rescue of these careless teenagers. He tried his best to help them physically, but couldn’t do much. So, he called a tow truck right away on his expense. Ted stayed with the boys till the tow truck arrived and provided his support till the end. James told him about his G1 license and Ted was not shocked since it’s nothing new for a teenager to get excited to drive in order to impress his friends. According to Ted, the other guy was either drunk or was on a cell phone since he was the one who was driving on the wrong side. “He didn’t call the cops, thank God! Otherwise, I would’ve been in big trouble and my mom might have had a heart attack,” says James. James went to a nearby ATM to reimburse Ted for his generous loan. Good thinking, James!
James learned his lesson the hard way. His mom was so shocked that she couldn’t even talk to anyone for a week or so.
“What if the cops had come? What in the world would’ve happened if they had collided or had gone to the Mavis road? What if Ted wasn’t there? I was worried to death thinking about the other boys,” Said Gina. Gina conveyed her gratitude to Ted the very next day, “I was speechless, I cried in front of him, and he understood…I didn’t even have a CAA membership and can’t afford a hike in my insurance.”
Ted is a young guy who used to live at the corner of our street, but has recently moved to another place. Our angel, as Gina and I named him, has spread his wings and gone elsewhere. He must be watching over other kids in some other neighborhood. Wherever he may be, his neighbors are extremely fortunate.

Friday, July 4, 2008

My son's graduation photo.


Hi Paul and my friends, here's a picture of my son's graduation. He graduated from Father Michael Goetz secondary school. The graduation ceremony was very colorful, though the main color was blue because of the graduation gowns. The official color of the Gators is green. Mayor Hazel Mc Callion was the guest of honour.I cried through all the speeches even though my son had warned me against it,and shooting the ceremony with my camcorder at the same time. My son was telling the student next to him that the only lady in the crowd who is crying is my mom.It was really an emotional moment for me and an important mile stone for my baby. As time passes fast I can see him graduating from the university soon.

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

My recent visit to Niagara Falls.

Hi everyone, how was your long weekend? I was busy at work on Monday and Friday as everyone booked the long weekend off. I had to work extra hours. Well, on Saturday my brother's family gave us a surprise visit from Florida. We went to Niagara Falls. Wonderful weather!! We really had a blast of a time. We enjoyed the ride on Maid of the Mist and the giant Ferris wheel. To see the falls from the top was really thrilling. The down town was bustling with tourists, it was so alive and colorful. The live bands playing added a bonus entertainment. I particularly enjoyed the Golden Elvis, a guy dressed like Elvis acted like a mechanical dummy. The choreography was so good I couldn't make out the difference initially. Another interesting scene was that of the fudge making,right in front of you,which can be sampled afterwards. All in all it was day full of fun and entertainment, beside the time spent with family and loved ones is always rewarding.

PS
John, I was planning to take them to Niagara on the lake but we didn't have much time.

Saturday, June 28, 2008

EURO CUP 2008

EURO CUP 2008

Professor Paul Hambleton

By, Samina Tauhid

June 22, 2008

Soccer, as sweet as Tiramisu

If one wants to see multiculturalism at its best, one should visit my street. Why my street? My street is totally multicultural with Indians, Pakistanis, Chinese, Arabs, Portuguese, Italians, and Polish residents. You name it and we have them; all ethnic Canadians living in perfect harmony. When I say, ‘in perfect harmony’, I really mean it. This harmony is one which is seen through sports played on the street by kids.

These kids play all kinds of games from basketball to ice hockey, from cricket to soccer. The best part of these sports is the participation of kids of all ages and sometimes the involvement of parents in the evenings all of which brings more life to our street.

Street hockey is played in winter and cricket in summer while basketball is an all season favorite.

The kids follow the latest trends too. They follow Stanley Cup, World Cup, and currently, the Euro cup.

I’m always intrigued by these kids as they vary from 9/10 years to 15/16 years of age. They play together as two perfect teams. I remember when we used to play cricket back home as kids, our older brothers or cousins would treat us as ‘extras’ to just field or fetch stuff for them like water or towels. This would really make us angry and frustrated. It’s more rewarding to see these kids play as one unified team and brings back the memories of childhood back that makes me think “when these youngsters can live in perfect unison, why can’t we?”

These children are a perfect role model for a unified Canada

Talking about unity I must give credit to sports of any kind that brings everyone together. We forget our differences and remember one thing which is to ‘have blast of a time.’

As soon as the Euro Cup started, our street turned into a soccer field. Some of the neighbors have flags of different Euro cup playing countries displayed outside their houses and cars.

One of my neighbors, Sergio Demalo, has turned his garage into a sitting room with nice chairs and couches; one of his walls is covered with a giant Portuguese flag and the other wall with an Italian flag, (why an Italian flag? The answer will be provided soon). Underneath the flag is a big screen TV. It’s the best use of the garage I’ve ever seen. You can very well visualize how colorful my street must look with flags of all nations displayed every where.

Since most of the games are in the afternoon or early in the evenings, this gentleman who is a retiree, opens his garage for kids and adults who are back from school or work to watch Euro cup matches with his own family. I wish my schedule allowed for me to take part in more of the harmonious bonding festivities as I have, unfortunately, only been able to watch one game with them.

“I used to play soccer when I was a kid and played it in college team too. It’s in my blood as it is in most of the Europeans,’ Says my neighbor Sergio. “I’m fond of all kinds of sports like hockey and basketball since I’ve been living in Canada for the past 32 years, but soccer is my favorite.” Sergio tells me.

Sergio’s wife is Italian, (the reason for the Italian flag on the other wall) which makes it more interesting. She too is a soccer fan. They both support their respective teams, but aren’t happy when one of them loses. Wilma, Sergio’s wife, was so thrilled to see Italy made it to the quarter finals that she made us Tiramisu the same evening. Oh, how I wish Italy would win the tournament! She has promised Tiramisu on Italy’s victory, “I will make Tiramisu and Portuguese cream rolls if my team wins the Cup.” Wilma makes a pact with us, our street soccer team, and me.

“Please Lord, let Italy win. Amen.” I prayed in my heart. I’ve never tasted a dessert so good in my life.

I’m a big diplomat when it comes to sports other then cricket. I usually support the underdog team, or the team my friends are supporting. For instance, I was totally supporting Portuguese until quarter finals and not just because of Sergio; I have a few other Portuguese friends at work. We showed our solidarity there. Once Portugal was out, I needed some other team to cheer, so why not Italy? At least then I would get to eat my new favorite dessert!

I like the straightforwardness of soccer. Soccer is easy to understand, universally accepted, and less time consuming .Unlike Cricket, soccer is short and sweet, (no relation to Tiramisu). I somehow keep revolving around the sweetness of the game and the dessert we are promised; it must be something to do with my big sweet tooth otherwise, I’ve never behaved like this in my life. It’s easy to give in to temptation, but this kind of temptation, shame on me!

How truly small a place the world really is can very well be experienced here on our street. The Euro Cup is not only followed by the European Canadians, but all of us from different continents of the world. It’s not just the sports bars who telecast the games live, but different vendors in the malls and other regular restaurants are following the trend. It has become a good sign of unity and a way to bring people together. I love to see the enthusiasm in the atmosphere these days in the malls.

Two of my colleagues at work went to Europe to watch one of the initial matches. They were saving for this vacation for a long time and were really thrilled to actually go to Europe during a time of such sports enthusiasm, “I’m totally thrilled and so excited you can’t imagine,” says a bubbly Veronica. Clive was equally excited but not as vocal as Veronica.

They stayed in Vienna, Austria. Vienna is considered the centre of all the Euro 2008 hype. “The host country had a fan zone which is actually a portion of the city blocked off just for the soccer crazed fans from all over Europe which holds nine big screens along a 2 km stretch. Patriotic fans from the participating countries gather at game time with flags, scarves and jerseys to show their support for the respective team.” Tells, an equally flamboyant Clive.

As a matter of fact if you see what Clive and Veronica experienced in Vienna, I experienced the same thrill here in Canada through the sport lovers like Sergio and the kids of my street. The fan zone of Vienna was created here in Sergio’s garage unconsciously.

This mirroring effect of Vienna and Canada is a proof how universal sports are and games like these teach us that we can be unified and share a single culture through a child’s favorite thing to do …play.

Too bad I didn’t get my Tiramisu! Italy is out but I’m still following the tournament on line waiting for any team to win so that I have an excuse to celebrate with sweets.

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Hi Paul, how's it going? I'm almost done with you assignment. when is the dead line? You didn't post your comments on the class assignment yet? well I'll soon post my piece on my blog. hopefully its better then previous ones.
regards
samina

Monday, June 16, 2008

creating awareness( one bullet too many)

The documentry in my opinion did a good job in creating an impact on me.That impact in turn enlightened me not just as a journalist but as a normal human being. They were powerful and very dramatic. The scenes of baby Asia in the hospital and the scenes of her house at the reserve, the graffetti on the walls did manage to pull out my attention. Mark Kelly has unique skills in writing and interviweing, the way he makes people talk, is his trade mark. He makes his interviewee talk the way he wants and can leave him or her hold his/her breath.The same way I get the feeling of involvement from the beginning and keeps my breath in for the next scene. It's as if I'm right there. Amazing! This documentry showed me the conditions of a reserve which I, as a Torontonian didn't know exist. We had only heard about it or read about it, but not seen it, it was actually seeing a native reserve and its conditions. It definitely focuses on the gang war and violence in the reserves, the lawlessness,natives' hatred towards the police and authority and their lack of concern towards their own community. The natives sufferring from self created poverty and gang violence which Mark thinks would eventually be over some day.
Hi Paul and everyone else with creative brains, I need your help. How can I meet deadlines when I work 9-5 and have classes at night, without losing my head. I'm so stressed out.
seeking help!!!! samina

Monday, June 9, 2008

hello everybody!!

Hi !!! hope every one is doing good and enjoying it as much as I'm..... samina